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by JoeAltmaier 4111 days ago
Like, in "going out with the boys" or "my boys have my back" or "boys will be boys"?
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all those phrases are used by the immature referring to the immature.

those _are_ boys.

It's not uncommon in sports. That's the kind of thing I'd expect to hear in the locker room or on the ice when playing hockey. I don't feel like maturity plays into it there. It's almost a term of endearment.
I've literally never said any of those and would feel uncomfortable doing so.
But you are aware of these sayings correct? This was not the first time you've heard them, right?
Yes, I am aware. But then again I phrased my original statement to show that there was a small frequency of use of these terms. Where females (in my area) have a very high frequency of referring to each other as girls. Almost like "woman" is a formal term.
That's anecdotal at best. These are colloquialisms, they've been around well before you and I were born.
Yes.

I'll gladly refer to myself as a girl, but I only ever use "woman" in formal contexts.