[zem]

so here's one concrete thing you can do - when a woman says she can tell that someone is staring at her boobs (versus just happening to be looking in that direction), believe her! don't immediately start looking for all the reasons she might be mistaken.

[danellis]

In think the person doing the looking has a better idea of what they're looking at than another person.

[zem]

yes, but i think someone with a lifetime of picking up on subliminal cues has a better idea of who is staring at her than an uninvolved third party