[PhasmaFelis]

> Much of what looks like rudeness in hacker circles is not intended to give offence. Rather, it's the product of the direct, cut-through-the-bullshit communications style that is natural to people who are more concerned about solving problems than making others feel warm and fuzzy

With all due respect to ESR, and speaking as an autistic person who has struggled with socialization, I get tired of people trying to paint their failure to grasp basic social principles as a virtue. Behaving like an efficient robot is useful when dealing with machines, but other people are not machines and treating them as such does not improve productivity even if you think it ought to.

A couple of jobs back, I met with a supervisor to proudly tell him that a gigantic, exhausting project I'd been working on for the last nine months was finally ready to deploy. His response, almost verbatim, was "Cool. Here's what I need you to do next..." I found it nearly impossible to care about what he wanted for the rest of my time there. 60 seconds' worth of interest and congratulations would have gotten dozens of hours of extra productivity out of me.

Sorry, that got awfully off-topic. It's just a hot button with me.

[couchand]

Thanks. That was as or more apropos as the comment you replied to, and much more valuable.

60 seconds' worth of interest and congratulations would have gotten dozens of hours of extra productivity out of me.

Hundreds, probably, thousands maybe. It's hard to overestimate the value in these things.

Except, of course, on HN.

So, to reiterate, other people are not machines.