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We're repeatedly seeing a small number of people force their preferences upon increasingly larger masses of unwilling victims

This goes both ways though, doesn't it? Much of the arguing about HTTP/2 tended to be Johnny Come Latelies who, if we're being honest, seemed to just want to toss some refuse in the gears. Microsoft, in particular, watched as Google proposed SPDY, and then iterated and shared their findings, and then right as consensus (or as close to consensus as possible) starts to be reached, Microsoft tries to upset the cart. In that case wouldn't Microsoft, and the naysaysers, be the ones trying to force their preferences? The delay of HTTP/2, or basic improvements to these technologies, not only causes hassles for developers (image sprites, resource concatenation, many domains, and on and on), it marginalizes the web.

It is going to be pretty rare when any initiative sees complete unanimous agreement, especially given that many of the parties have ulterior motives and agendas that aren't always clear.