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by amelius 4171 days ago
> I'd call him a douche, but this is a clear case of don't hate the player, hate the game.

In other words: put too much effort in networking, and hate yourself for being a douche. Put too little effort in networking and hate yourself for missing out on opportunities.

Like most things in life, it's about finding a balance that works for you.