[tptacek]

I'm not sure you're wrong about me and didn't take offense. I think you should rethink whether HN is rigged against your point of view. I think HN's moderators are just as irritated by groupthink as you are. I also think you should ask yourself whether you're commenting to persuade, or (like me) because you like debate, or (in your case, this time) just to vent. It's fine to vent, but I don't think you can legitimately get irritated at the mods for tamping that down, because venting gets disruptive and unproductive fast.

[williamcotton]

I deserve to get downvoted for venting. Nothing else to say really.

[dang]

Well, I'll add a few things. I meant to say more last night but there was too much going on.

You overestimated your disagreement with the people who (try to) manage this site. I'm personally sympathetic to a lot of what you were trying to say—small-minded technical literalism is a personal bugbear—and appreciated the emotion in your venting as something real. It's refreshing when someone says how they feel instead of sniping from an intellectual bunker. Your comment became more alive when you did that.

But you (i.e. we, i.e. any of us) can't take out your frustration on individual other users. First, if one can do it, everyone can do it, and that way lies lameness. Second, we're figments on an internet forum to each other, which means we're mostly projection screens—we see what we imagine about each other and we're all almost certainly wrong. Discussion on that basis isn't interesting, just agitating.

The only way out of this is to cultivate the benefit of the doubt. That's harder than it sounds, because it requires awareness of when one is not doing it.

[williamcotton]

we're figments on an internet forum to each other, which means we're mostly projection screens—we see what we imagine about each other and we're all almost certainly wrong. Discussion on that basis isn't interesting, just agitating.

The irony here is that forums like this seem to promote "small-minded technical literalism". Upvotes, downvotes, threaded discussion, and a quantified system of points are antithetic to discussions on humanistic qualities.

But you're quite right, I should strive to be more mindful.

I should find better ways to show how upsetting I find it when people dismiss well-written essays as "bullshit" but fail to actually address the content on it's own terms.

The thing is, people consistently use downvotes to lazily express that they don't agree. I don't know if there is a solution to that.

Can't you see how all of this is actually directly related to the concerns addressed by the author in the actual article? A fiery response is about as middle-brow as it gets. I take no shame in being mortal and emotional. I'm not trying to transcend humanity and live forever nor try to attain some sort of idealized state of being.

But yeah, if everyone was just shouting explicitness back and worth we'd get nothing done. Save that for the sports bars.