A friend of mine has been trying to get me to learn awk, sed, perl or grep. Honestly I only have the patience for one at the moment, which do you think is the best (taking the ease of learning into account)?
You don't, it's a readline thing, it doesn't really generate a file you can manipulate. (I expect to be proven wrong with some insane one-liner though).
What you can do is press Ctrl-R again and it will search the older match. There's also forward match but I can't recall the shortcut.
Also, for general bash stuff, these are great, and IMO much better than the TLDP site that always ranks high on Google:
http://mywiki.wooledge.org/BashGuide
http://wiki.bash-hackers.org/doku.php