[mootothemax]

so I have enough time to work in the evenings and spend time with my 3 month old daughter

It's tough, but really worth it.

After my daughter was born (she's 18 months now), I set a rule that no matter what happens, 18:00 to 20:00 is guaranteed for her and her alone.

It's a double win: something for me to look forward to every day; and my daughter gets quality time with her father before going to bed every night.