[salarynegging]

It is a large company that opened a new office in a different city, but there are no salaries online from positions in this new office.

I can get an idea of how much a software engineer at the same company in, say, San Francisco makes, but of course I'll be making less here because of the difference in the cost of living.

My default number would be the median salary for a software engineer in my area, but to be honest, I'm a more valuable employee than the average engineer in my area, and think that after this lengthy interview process, my prospective employer agrees.

I've been in the awkward "I need a number situation" and have missed out on a lot of money because of it. One time, I even gave $X, and my interviewer came back with $X - ($X * 0.05). After a month of working at this place, I realized that I could have asked for twice as much money.

[brudgers]

There's no reason to assume that you will make less simply because of location. Indeed, if there are fewer qualified candidates locally than might be found in San Francisco, then perhaps you're in a position to negotiate for more money. People aren't interchangeable, if someone in SF could do the work, they wouldn't be looking for someone where you live.

The company's quick alternative is to move someone from another location. Not only is such a person unlikely to take a pay cut based on location, they may ask for more. And certainly will ask for relocation expenses.

Relocation expenses, recruiter fees, etc are all part of the company's budget, not just salary. Don't sell yourself short.

Good luck.