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Why does it hurt to ask why? Asking yourself why is also a means of learning.

There are so many interesting things to learn, and they're all readily accessible to us. I find myself discovering a new fascinating subject I'd love to learn about each day, and by now the list of fascinating things has grown unmanageable. Asking "why?" can be a good means to to make sense of such a list.

At a younger age, I was able to sustain great focus and effort on learning something without ever asking myself why. This approach helped me earn a doctoral degree on an obscure, esoteric topic without ever stopping to ask why. I assure you, I personally wish I'd asked why.

Years later, I continue to enjoy learning. But since there are so many things to learn, I have the choice of learning many things superficially (the default when something new catches my interest daily), or really digging in and learning something in depth. At this stage in my life, with many things competing for my time and attention, learning something in depth requires considerably more motivation. And (for me) having an answer to "why?" helps me sustain that motivation.