[01Michael10]

WTF? Woman should be more worried about what is said behind their backs then men? Are you saying when someone is a jerk to you to just take it? Being a man, you know that's not how we roll so why should a woman do anything different?

[icebraining]

I'm saying that women are much more likely to have anything said behind their backs, and of what is said being taken seriously by others. I never said you should "just take it", you're assuming stuff I didn't write.

And just because I'm a man that doesn't mean I "roll" in a certain way.

[01Michael10]

I have been in the workforce a long time and never noticed people talk more about woman behind their backs then men. Source on some research in that area?

So you are saying woman should be more concerned about their "reputation" then men? Sounds a little sexist to me... Hint, if you are going to give advice maybe you shouldn't involve gender when it is irrelevant.

[icebraining]

No, I'm not saying women should be more concerned. I also never gave any advice. I'm not sure why you keep trying to put words in my mouth. I meant exactly what I said, and nothing else.

[01Michael10]

>In my experience - as a bystander, since I'm a man - that'd be a good way to provoke insults and (if the jerk knows you) defamation behind your back.

You were not saying (as a man) you don't think it would be wise to confront someone who was rude to their face because they may talk behind her back? Sounds like advice... Oh, wait! It was just a warning!

Thanks for playing dude...

[bmelton]

Also a man. I don't give two figs what's said behind my back though.

[01Michael10]

??? I was referring to the original comment which was about things said to one's face. It was icebraining that was concerned about things said behind one's back.