[chton]

It's definitely possible that there is no one good definition, but it's a good discussion to have. I applaud that you treat this with your class.

The usefulness is debatable. To me, it's been useful because it helped me see that, for example, a process can also be an object, and you can apply object oriented rules to interacting processes. The Actor model is an extension of that. Modelling a set of Microservices as an object model has also proven valuable.

How you communicate it to students is a not an easy matter. I'm opposed to giving definitions as an absolute truth if they aren't, even if you're doing to prove a point. If you want to teach with different definitions, that is of course perfectly fine, but at least a mention of the debate could solve some later problems. People tend to adhere to the 'laws' they learn for a long time, and if you teach them a definition that is incorrect in some cases, they'll have trouble with those cases.