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by AnotherMarc 4210 days ago
Some good thoughts on here. Pretty graceless comment on her part. Without having any context, my first guess is that it speaks more to her issues than yours.

I've been married for over 20 years. Met my wife shortly after I finally stopped working on making out with other people. If you're feeling pressure to find someone, it might show. You can be a total nerd (I was/am, and same with a lot of my friends). Just focus on being a decent, compassionate human being. Good things will happen from there.