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by ddebernardy
4239 days ago
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A test makes that attitude materially more likely. Encouraging kids to be smart and do smart things? Go for it. Labeling them as smart? Sure, as long as you don't forget to teach them a healthy dose of humility. Constantly labeling them as smarter? Uh oh... did I mention humility yet? Making them pass tests to validate that they're smart? Kids don't need or want that; the parents do. It's a recipe to set their kid's life ablaze until young adulthood -- or later. |
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What if we held the attitude that "smarter" was just another aspect of the genetic lottery, like your height or the color of your skin? What if we taught our children that it doesn't matter what you are, it matters what you do?
Why should telling a child that they're "smart" be any worse than telling them that they're "tall"?
The problem isn't labeling them as smart, the problem is the pervasive attitude that smart can be a substitute for other things like hard work or kindness, and the attitude that a child who's too smart is somehow no longer compatible with his peers.
Why shouldn't a child genius both pursue extreme mental enrichment and participate in life as a peer with other children of his own age? There's nothing that inherently separates prodigies from their peers. We make it happen.