Actually, everything was pretty simple: Use libev since it's faster than libevent, use Node's http parser because it's fast. Then allow each thread in the pool to run its own event loop. This pretty much sums up my university's Internet Programming course. There were few hairy bits about tcmalloc, but they did a great job about explaining how they took advantage of object pooling and region-based memory management. Great post guys, I can't wait to give your source a read :)
I haven't seen any benchmarks comparing the two, but Node first used libev, and then the team created libuv out of a need to support Windows, because libev is unix only.
I would have loved to see some data that showed their bump pointer regions and thread local stuff performing significantly better than tcmalloc or jemalloc, both of which do thread-local caching that avoids locks for the vast majority of allocations. Additionally, what they came up with sounds like talloc[1], which has been in production for years with samba.