[thedufer]

I think http://www.kalzumeus.com/2012/09/17/ramit-sethi-and-patrick-... and http://www.kalzumeus.com/2012/09/21/ramit-sethi-and-patrick-... are good places to start. If you have specific questions about your circumstances, you can probably act on the invitation here: http://www.kalzumeus.com/standing-invitation/.