[mturmon]

This seems like generated outrage.

The OP should take a minute to think about how the method of subtraction works, and then explain it to his kid.

I associate this panic reaction (OP: "this new method makes no freaking sense") with people who are math-phobic. The solution is to just settle down and think about it. (Common core, third grade objectives, number 1: "Make sense of problems and persevere in solving them.")

And, one thing I've learned about elementary educators is that they don't want to fight with parents. (Unsurprising!) So if you say (like OP did), "This common core math sucks," they are going to say, "yes, we don't like it either." If you said it was an interesting way to do subtraction, they'd agree with that too.