[dj-wonk]

I am having a hard time understanding where you are getting such a negative vibe about software development, systems administration, and related fields. Are you being overly pessimistic? Yes, and that is an understatement. Give it a shot and see how it goes.

Yes, some places don't have a clue about software. Some may not treat you well. Look and shop around until you find a decent place.

What else are you considering?

If you want to talk about some fields that have high dissatisfaction, take a look at becoming a doctor or lawyer. :)