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by Cederfjard
4327 days ago
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In what way are you contradicting Tharkun? I can't figure it out. "Please don't make the assumption that other's experience of the man-made world around us is in any way similar to yours, that's just not true." Where did s/he? I'm genuinely stumped. Learning to drive a car IS inherently hard (as in complex), just as "e-mail encryption and identity management", and that is a fact. If you for some reason are more or less adept than the average person at either of these things, I don't see what difference that makes to the reality of the situation. Like driverdan said, if you simply can't do something, you'll have to find a workaround. |
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But here's a true, I swear, you can probably check that it is, story just for you:
I didn't know how the whole army thing works when my time came. Just wasn't ever interested. Didn't know my sergeant from my brigadier.
The army took me seeing that I'm fit, for certain values of fit. Put me through boot-camp. That's when I landed in military jail for the first time. I could take everything that was going on in there only with a dose of humour, but grinning 24/7 was apparently not acceptable behaviour. But that wasn't what got me in jail.
There was one thing I could not take, absolutely. Still can't. There wasn't a moment to myself, I couldn't ever get alone in there. I had to always be accounted for, from their point of view; but from mine I couldn't find a place or the time to take a short meditation. I don't know what I have, but I've been getting through it all my life with meditation, and once that wasn't available I was heavily depressed. I thought of suicide, I talked of suicide, and that's basically all I ever talked or thought about. While grinning at anything they had to say to me in return.
So I went home. Took my stuff and went out the gate.
Later came back and went to military jail for a sentence. Then for boot-camp number two, as I didn't finish one.
But later when I did finish it on my second attempt, they didn't want me anywhere near a base anymore. They wanted me out of base for most of the time. They way to achieve this in the army is to make you a driver. This way you're driving around, not being in the base, problem solved.
If you read my previous comment, you know what the problem with that approach is. They didn't. So I explained, repeatedly. Any time they'd let me see an officer that was in charge of that kind of thing, I'd explain that I can't drive, won't ever be able to, and not even torture can "change my mind".
Either they have decided to test that last bit empirically, or just couldn't wrap their heads around the idea of someone not being able to do something that "any idiot could"; but long story short I've done 7 months of prison time in three separate terms over the span of 1.5 years before they saw me as unfit for service and let me go, and be as I am.
That is to say, you're not always in a position to find a workaround, if I may refer to your closing sentence.