[eaurouge]

Don't live in Oakland if you're going to be working in Menlo Park - long commute, not even a fun drive on a weekend. If you're really pressed, Newark (just across Dumbarton Bridge) and Fremont (just south of Newark) are much better options.

[HorizonXP]

I would agree with this, except a few of my friends have moved to Oakland from SF and they're loving it. They have families too.