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by goshx 4329 days ago
Would you guys stop posting about suicide? I've already been measuring the speed I'd hit the ground if I were to jump from my balcony. I'm serious. Maybe this is why mainstream media doesn't report on suicides.
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I don't know if this comment was meant to be snarky, or illustrative, or in any way not a direct statement of fact, but I will never take such a comment lightly.

Are you okay? Please call a friend and talk, or 1-800-273-8255 (national suicide hotline, for US people).

If you want to talk to someone but don't have anyone to turn to, my email is this same username at endofunctor.org

Life can be hard sometimes and I know it doesn't feel like things will change, but it will pass. You will feel better.

They usually hit the front page for a few days after an event. I assume it Robin Williams related. In the mean time http://i.imgur.com/vvAzSFi.gif
thank you for doing this... I know where you got that from, and I laughed again. Truly appreciate it :)
I appreciate the downvotes. You clearly don't understand how such topics affect other people lives.
Most people don't. This seems to be quite prevalent in most societies. News media doing anything to get a story to grab viewers. Another example is school shootings: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PezlFNTGWv4
It's hard to know what the right thing is to do with reports like this. If, as seems to be the case, articles about suicide encourage suicide, is it better to keep quiet about the fact so as not to directly contribute to the problem? Or is it better to report it in hopes of educating the media and reducing future articles, at the cost of more articles right now?

Either way, I hope you're able to find comfort and support somewhere. I've been there, and I know it sucks. Best wishes, truly.

Hey, I don't know how to help you, generally or with this issue of postings on HN being triggering specifically. Nor do I know the right thing to say today. Sometimes I do, but I don't today. I just wanted to touch base and offer a smidgeon of human warmth.
http://www.beyondblue.org.au/

There are people and organisations out there who can help you find a better way of overcoming depression.

> suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem

As someone who has struggled with suicide, please stop saying this.

http://suicidepreventioncommunity.wordpress.com/2010/03/05/p...

Having an episode of depression doesn't give you special insight on this issue. Your experience wasn't universal and if you're browsing this site you probably ought to know better than to put excessive weight on your own anecdotal evidence.

Personally, I'm really sick of the pussy-footing around the issue and I've yet to see any scientific evidence that it's helping anyone.

I am really confused by this post. ChristianBundy linked to an article by a suicide prevention professional, and you're accusing him of pushing anecdotal evidence based solely on his own experience. Are you under the impression that he wrote the article? Did you reply to the wrong post?
The author, Franklin Cook, has a Master of Arts degree in humanities. He's an "editor" for "SPNAC" in that, as far as I can tell, he's the only contributor and uses the site to advertise his paid services as a grief counselor.

The article itself offers no credible reference and is self-labelled as an opinion piece.

I'm under the impression that the ChristianBundy merely googled an article that agreed with his personal experiences. We've all done that, but it's important to apply skeptical scrutiny.

Okay. Maybe Cook has no actual credentials and is just some dude pontificating on the internet. He still makes a coherent and level-headed argument for why that phrase is counterproductive. If you disagree, the ball's in your court to provide a reasoned response. You won't convince anyone with dismissive, content-free snark.
Okay. Maybe Cook has no actual credentials and is just some dude pontificating on the internet. He still makes a coherent and level-headed argument for why that phrase is counterproductive. If you disagree, I'd like to see a reasoned response instead of dismissive, content-free snark.
Hey there! Why don't you (or anyone else reading this) shoot me an e-mail. Rick@rudelinux.org.