I hope that you can start to see women as people with whom you can form meaningful relationships, rather than seeing them as "girls" that you need to "pick up".
The "pick up" mindset implies a number of things about the kinds of relationships "pick up artists" have with women:
- Calling them "girls" implies they are young and not really in the adult world, and not on an equal level with "men".
- The phrase "pick up" implies that women are objects, to be "picked up", not to be viewed as equals.
- The whole pick up mindset turns dating into a game that men are out to win, rather than it being about finding someone you can build a relationship with.
- The word "dedicated" in this context implies a disturbing commitment to this approach to dealing with women.
I'm responding because my comment was sincere. I hope that people who get into the pick up mindset can recognize the shallowness of that approach, and move on to forming more respectful and lasting relationships with women.
Neither did I use the term "pick up" in relation to what I do, nor did I imply seeing women as objects. Thats why I asked you to refer to what I wrote.
As for the dedication to become good (which mainly means more self secure and understanding) in the interactions with young beautiful women: Yeah! I would love to meet other guys who are into this. It seems to go against some old fashioned worldview you hold. My reply to this is: Get rid of values that have been drummed into you and start listening to your own feelings!