| Look, I agree with a lot of what you have said, but at the same time it is a little unfair to paint this as some universal truth. > There is nothing noble about being willing to sacrifice everything for success. Maybe not to you, but many people find nobility in success. For example, I recently watched the "When we left earth" [1] series about the intense NASA effort to put a person on the moon. There was quite a bit of sacrifice involved for many many years towards one single goal, but damn if the people involved didn't take a great amount of pride in their accomplishment afterwards. Building a startup might not be putting a person on the moon, but it sure can feel like that when you are involved in it. > Remember, the road is long and you’re going to be on that grind for a long time I compare my career in startup-land vs friends and relatives in careers that are actually a grind (try politics), and I will tell you how many of them would love the opportunity to work much harder to compress the timelines of their careers, but they can't. I'm not saying that having a sustainable culture of the proper amount of work isn't good, I think it is. But if somebody is working 80 hours a week for something they believe in, I say good for them! Maybe they like it, maybe they have fewer responsibilities, maybe they genetically need less sleep than everybody else. Who knows. But I certainly don't assume they are making a bad decision because it isn't one that I would make. 1: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/When_We_Left_Earth:_The_NASA_Mi... |