[coops]

This is generally correct. In particular, when the HAProxy process is stopped/restarted there is a brief period during which the port is not bound by either process. (If the new process isn't able to get the socket when it boots it will sleep ~XXms, then try to bind/listen in a loop until it gets it or a retry threshold is hit.) During this time the kernel will reject incoming connections to the HAProxy port, so you are in danger of dropping incoming requests on the ground.