[zo1]

"This is the question that they cannot answer for themselves and it makes them bitter." They can answer it, they just don't want to because they know it would make them feel uncomfortable. Facing one's own flaws and self-perceived failings is a difficult task.

[gclaramunt]

OTOH, is not enjoyable making your friends uncomfortable...

[zo1]

If internet porn has taught me anything, it's that no matter what it is, or how weird it may be, someone out there gets off watching/doing it.