| You know what? I laugh at guys like you. And the biggest reason I laugh? It's not me or somebody else doing all this. It's YOU.
You, realising your problems and not doing a thing about it, but complaining anonymously on internet. You cry about how lonely you are? Or talk about how you just don't have social life and nice ladies, and all that emo bullshit? You're a miserable weak coward, why would anybody want to be a friend with you? Let it piss you off as much as you want, but you know it's completely true. Many of us there are engineers and work hard most of the time doing things that we love. But if you do want to get asked out to do other fun things at weekends, then stop being that pathetic stereotypical nice guy.
Create opportunities, take people out, add value to those around you and soon they'll start inviting you out just like you're inviting them out.
But if you want to continue crying in the corner, then cool, cry. Just don't post it to tech related sites. TLDR: You need to think about what you can contribute to others' lives, so that they'll be more likely to invite you out. Having a car and being a nice guy doesn't count. |