[efnysien]

It sounds like what you're looking for is best served by an incubator. Barring that, if you're in the valley (or even elsewhere) you should get involved with some sort of shared-working space like HackerDojo. From what I've experienced, the people and environment provide a nice expectation boost (it's very difficult to push yourself alone - much easier when people know what you're up to, and have expectations on you to succeed - then you have to!).

Best of luck!

[rgovind]

I came here to tell about haker dojo and you beat me to it. In Bay area Hacker dojo, agile entrepreneur meetups happen. Once a week (Fridays?), you give update to others in the meetup on what you accomplished, what you plan for the next week and what your stumbling blocks. I believe this is a great way to keep pushing yourself forward. Apart from that, you should consider working in a co-working space so you can meet like minded people.