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> she told the similarly drunk guy she was cold - a standard hookup line to initiate hugging, which is all that happened

"I woke up with my pants undone and down (but not completely removed). My top and bra around my neck, and to my horror, Matt behind me. Holding me."

Sure doesn't sound like just hugging. Also her post doesn't say she simply told the guy she was cold, it says she directly asked him to turn on the heater. Either way, what's said to have happened next would be a very clear indication that she didn't mean anything romantic of it:

"I got stronger and stronger – ending in forcibly pushing him away"