[anigbrowl]

I fail to see what is wrong with 'splitting up' or 'separating' which have never carried any connotations of accidental or inadvertent parting. You'd think that the end of other people's relationships was the result of carelessness or oversight. Talk about self-absorbed.

[lingben]

because if you use those terms you are not really a precious snow-flake but just like everyone else!