[odonnellryan]

I'm not trying to be insulting here in any way, and I hope I come across correctly.

It's not your fault, and it's a horrible situation that many people would love to see changed. I love talking about technology, and it's unfortunate the culture is the way it is where it alienates part of the community for discussion.

However, with all such things -- while it is worthwhile to push for change -- they must be taken in stride and seen as obstacles to overcome.

Take what you think is a weakness in your situation: that you're underestimated, or maybe ignored, as your strength.