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> (despite the fact that the situations described would have been an order of magnitude less likely to arise if she were a man).

How and why is this a fact? Could really none of this happen to a male employee?

Crazy boss? Check. Workplace relationship? Check. "Enemies" reverting your code? Check. Management non-reactive to complaints? Check. I think a lot of this goes on regularly on many companies, an concerns many employees. In particular, what seems sexist here is trying to make this a women's problem, not an employee's problem.