[MarkIceberg]

Thats to load the initial view. You can toggle between genders very conviniently. Wouldnt be a good idea to load the entire friendslist in one go.

[jnbiche]

Ah ok, fair enough. I figured you were using it to make only girls available to boys, and vice versa.

Still, if that permission is giving you problems because of people's reactions, just showing the entire friend list (with paging, of course) may not be a bad idea.