[CyberFonic]

I and a million others admire many of the people that you do. You might be lucky and reach the same level or not. Like the lottery you might not win, at least not yet.

When I was presented with the same opportunity, I dated the girl, proposed to her 5 months later. We have been married for over three years and I haven't regretted it.

In fact, she had many very successful people in her circle of friends who have since given me great advice and support that I would have missed out on if I had gone for what appeared (at the time) the fast track.

As Vaksel points out "Life is what happens while you are busy with other things". Just go with whatever is the strongest pull at each decision point. Good Luck !