[bluefish]

Your tough-love approach "...that's life, life is not fair, deal with it" is completely misguided and naive. I certainly hope that if you ever have children you don't use that mindset on them when they come home bullied, frustrated or upset.

[biohacker42]

I wouldn't use that on children, but he's not a child anymore.

[darkxanthos]

Exactly. He's got enough pity for himself, I'm glad you aren't giving him more.