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Dude. Be honest. Its over. You aren't looking for answer on what to do. You already have it. You want to know if your indifference to her is poor form or if you are still a human.

She wanted to know if you thought she was more important than your career. If you would give everything up for her. All women want to know that.

Clearly because you have to think about it, she is not most important. She knows it. You know it. (example: "I really did like my relationship with my girlfriend...")

Be honest. Grow a pair. You aren't a bad person.

Smile this is life and you are participating.