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by randallsquared 4567 days ago
Some people can talk their way out of almost anything. I've personally had my mind changed about something that was totally obvious; it's a pretty bizarre experience, looking back. Sometimes it takes hours or days for the reality distortion field to wear off.
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I've had at least one coworker like this at previous jobs. They've tended to fool me repeatedly until I notice the pattern and revise my opinion of them. The confidence they display makes me think they're smarter / more informed / more thoughtful than I am, until enough evidence causes me to stop all positive weighting of their opinions. It's worse when you have imposter syndrome for the first several months of any new situation.