[throwawaykf]

That article sounds like it supports a corrollary of rayiner's theory, that men are sick of having to "earn it". The article certainly seems to support that it is indeed women who control sex, and anytime they "settle for less" they feel like they're "giving it up".

Little do they know that even in marriage the dynamics don't change much, only the number of people involved (married people stereotype joke :-))