Sorry, what is the correct term for sex between two men these days? That's the specific issue I was attempting to highlight (and I was making a distinction between that and other sex because - to generalise - the power difference between two gay men is different to between a man and a woman).
Lesbian with strapon sex? - not sure there is a huge incident of sexually transmitted disease associated with that?
That is "mainstream media" is ermm mainstream usage. Most gay men I know just call it "anal" without making a big song and dance over it. It is 2013 after all.
If it's two bisexual men
> 5) Threesome sex
If it's three men.
> 6) Lesbian with strapon sex?
No, because that wouldn't involve any penises.
The parent was arguing that it's more common for men to be making decisions about condom usage than women. Why would lesbians use a condom?