[jbrains]

I like to pair. I like to talk about pairing. I have worked with people who don't pair well. I worked with one person whose wife noticed that his entire personality changed for the worse when he tried to pair. He stopped pairing.

You don't like to pair. You don't want people to try to pair with you.

So far, I'm with you.

How do you get from there to "if you ever talk about pairing, you're incompetent and horrible"? I have trouble with that part.