There are also companies that give you room to learn and to grow, help you advance your career in the direction you want, and also let you work reasonable hours.
What? I'm doing it wrong because I work 40 hours a week at a job I love, then go home in time to go for a walk in the park, read a book and watch the sunset, play a sport, and see friends?
I'm glad whatever you're doing works for you, but don't assume everyone else has similar needs.
In all sincerity, if you feel this way you are doing it wrong. Find something you can love and you will stop trying to compartmentalize it.