[painterforever]

I hate to be a stick in the mud, but is your wife attractive, young, always well dressed and made (hair styled, makeup applied well, nicely accessorized)? If your wife is what you would consider "a very pretty woman", she may be discredited because she is in fact HOT. Our society has decided that hot women are probably stupid women. It is the same case if you aren't so hot, if you are ugly, you are probably also stupid. Perhaps the men tried to make a move on her and she shot them down, and as punishment are treating her like a box of rocks. Maybe there is another woman that works with her that is older and less pretty and is trashing her behind her back. I had a older, burnt out woman as a mid level super who treated me (and 2 other girls) like damn crap because I (and the other girls) were young, students, and not fat and ugly like her. She hated her life, and was insane and miserable. She wanted to bring us down to her level. Your wife needs to find a new job. She is being held back.