I don't feel the same way as the person you are responding to, but I can empathize with his position. I left my religion of 29 years, and in the process I shattered connections with almost everybody in my life. They always try to bring up the religion and my beliefs, and I always cast aside the opportunity to try to convince them.
It isn't that I'm hostile or smug to them or their beliefs...it is just that arguing with them using reason and logic is so tiresome because we aren't arguing using the same language. We might as well be talking in Latin and Arabic.
Thanks, though I think the comparison to religion is probably a lot more accurate than the comparison to language. Wishing for someone to die is generally a level of hostility rooted in something deeper and uglier than communication challenges. If that was all it was, translators could end all wars and the world doesn't really work that way.
It isn't that I'm hostile or smug to them or their beliefs...it is just that arguing with them using reason and logic is so tiresome because we aren't arguing using the same language. We might as well be talking in Latin and Arabic.