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I am trying to understand you.

You might be genuinely interested in helping others but other people might not. People are not equally determined in overcoming any obstacle in their way to help someone in need. So making it easier for people to help would let more people receive help.

Do you agree this would be helpful to more people?

What striked me as interesting in your comment is how passionate you are about it. It's the kind of comment someone honest and genuinely caring makes after they've been burned. If someone treated you unfairly it can become an impetus for you to do great things.

I also wish HN readers tried to be more understanding.

(Note: I did not downvote you.)