[vukmir]

Again, I'm not a native speaker of English, but the obvious way to ask you for the reasons that make you angry is to ask you: "Why are you so angry?" I'm still learning English and would appreciate if you would be kind and teach me an alternative way to ask that question.

[dragonwriter]

The problem is not with the way of asking the question.

The problem is with the assumption about the other person's feelings underlying the premise of the question.