I would want to say yes to both, and I might, right up until the moment comes. At that point I don't see myself saying yes any more, especially if it involved family.
So though I say yes, I also know it is most likely a lie, or just wishful thinking.
So would I. However, humanbeings kill each other all the time. Given the choice between killing another human being, or having another human being kill me, I know which choice I would make.
I know good people who would answer yes to both, so I'm not judging - just asking.