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by ericb 6259 days ago
Judge them by their actions.

In an interview, ask them if they have any side projects. If they code when they don't have to, you know where their heart is. In a dating situation... if they don't call, or stand you up, that is more telling than what they say. People don't know themselves that well, and have trouble being direct in both scenarios.