[skylan_q]

The point is that she spent $50k because she spent too much time not focusing on starting a family and instead was doing something else which was probably a self-centered lifestyle. She would have nothing to say to the man who bought the car.

[tptacek]

A man can father children and buy a extravagant car in his 20s or his 50s. A woman freezing her eggs is doing so in response to a biological constraint that men don't face; they aren't comparable situations.