[cwbrandsma]

The real issue with ORMs isn't the ORM itself, but over reliance on the ORM to do everything the right way and not validating the ORM is doing things the right way. ORMs are also often heavily leaned on by people who don't understand SQL and relational databases well enough and just want a data dumping ground (would have been better off with a document database).

But, if properly validated, and knowing when to NOT use the ORM, a good ORM can help you get a lot of work done very efficiently. But I've also seen improperly used ORMs turn into MASSIVE time sinks where devs spends days just configuring the stupid thing (hello Hibernate/nhibernate).