[drewcummins]

I remember reading this and thinking it was full of thoughtful analogies shared anecdotally. Disappointing.

[bradleyland]

Here's a gender neutral version:

https://gist.github.com/bradland/40e21d25155a5d12e10d

[DanBC]

Change "Brother" and "ryan" to gender-neutral forenames. 'Avery' and 'Bailey' will do.