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by steveklabnik 4841 days ago
Men, take notice: I bet most of these factors are things you've rarely considered when thinking about your safety when going to a bar.
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Anyone who carries concealed on a regular basis thinks about things like this all the time.

Carrying a firearm makes you think ten steps ahead to avoid dangerous situations, because suddenly, any dangerous situation you may find yourself in is now a dangerous situation with a gun involved.

I've skipped going places when I was carrying (places that I would have gone to, unafraid, unarmed) because of the _potential_ that I would find myself in danger and have to do something I didn't want to do.

At the risk of derailing this thread, why the hell do you carry, then? If you don't want to have to fire your weapon, what the hell did you buy it for?

This rubs the wrong way when most people that carry concealed tell me "I do it to protect myself". Well, no shit, Sherlock, that means you're going to have to discharge the weapon if you're in danger. And a sufficiently likely conclusion involves someone getting the drop on you and/or taking your weapon, anyway.

> Well, no shit, Sherlock, that means you're going to have to discharge the weapon if you're in danger.

Some of us are sufficiently averse to being forced to kill people that we will go to great lengths to avoid potential danger.

Actually, I have, but not rooted in fear of sexual assault. Of the six bullet points listed, I've considered all of them for varying reasons. Five of them at once on more than one occasion. You bet your ass I have.

I think, even as much as it'd undermine your clever preaching to men here, you'd find that most men consider the venue, who's going to be in it, and escape plans before ordering the first shot.

Sort of like walking down the street on your phone, being oblivious to your surroundings is a ticket to problems.

If the gender bias you're implying is accurate it's probably more from arrogance than any other factor.